Judgment and values

I've noticed that when it comes to judgment and values, the faults you tend to despise most are those that you have eradicated within yourself.  People with little room for error with others have little room for error within themselves.  Really, what I'm getting at is that you apply the same judgment and values to your image of yourself as you do to your image of others.  The image aspect is important; unless you are highly and fairly accurately introspective and analytical, the image may differ largely from "the truth", often a nebulous target itself.  Anyways, hope that is some useful food for thought.